Cheating Spouse: 45 Clues Your Partner May be Having an Affair-From Barrington and Mchenry, IL
by: mshery
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Are you worried that your partner may be cheating on you? The following are tell-tale signs that frequently appear when someone is having an affair.
1. You find birth-control pills in her medicine cabinet, and you've had a vasectomy.
2. Mutual friends start acting strangely toward you because they either know about the cheating or have been told stories about what a horrible partner you are.
3. Your partner stops confiding in and seeking advice from you.
4. You discover a new e-mail account your partner opened that you did not know existed.
5. Your partners hours or level of reliability becomes irregular or keeps changing.
6. Your partner suddenly becomes concerned about his or her appearance.
7. Your partner buys a cell phone and does not let you know about it.
8. Your partner opens a separate cell phone account that is billed elsewhere.
9. You discover your husband carrying condoms and you are on the pill.
10. Your partner begins to delete all incoming phone calls from the caller ID.
11. Your partner starts deleting all incoming e-mails when he or she used to let them accumulate.
12. Because of guilt your partner becomes accusatory and starts questioning your fidelity.
13. Your partner begins to raise odd hypothetical questions such as, Do you think it is possible to love more than one person at a time?
14. He or she suddenly starts buying new clothes or special toiletries.
15. Your husband suddenly starts insisting that the child seat, toys, etc., are kept out of his car.
16. Your partner suddenly stops wearing his or her wedding ring.
17. Your husband has a sudden desire to be helpful with the laundry.
18. Your partner has unexplained scratches or bruises on his or her neck or back.
19. Your partner suddenly wants to try new love techniques.
20. Your partner stops having sex with you for no apparent reason.
21. He/she suddenly becomes critical of your sex life together.
22. Your partner supposedly works a lot of overtime, but it is not reflected in the paycheck.
23. Your partner suddenly starts finding reasons to unexpectedly leave the house.
24. You accidently discovered that your partner took a vacation day or personal time from work which you did not know about.
25. Your partner displays a sudden interest in a different type of music or entertainment.
26. Your spouses coworkers start appearing uncomfortable in your presence.
27. Your spouse has a sudden preoccupation with his or her appearance.
28. Your spouse spends an excessive amount of time on the computer, especially after you have gone to bed.
29. Your spouse is oddly not hungry at the usual times because he or she has already eaten with someone else.
30. Your spouse suddenly finds reasons to be away from home.
31. Your partners clothes smell of an unfamiliar perfume or after-shave. You may see lipstick or make-up on your husband's shirt.
32. The amount of money being deposited into your checking account unexpectedly drops off.
33. You find unaccounted for lingerie or other small gift-type items that you never saw before.
34. Your spouse seems unnecessarily irritable around you and is easily angered.
35. You get phone calls where a caller hangs up when you answer.
36. Your spouse becomes disinterested in home activities.
37. Your intuition or gut feeling tells you that your spouses interest is elsewhere.
38. Your spouse has a sudden change in attitude towards those in the home.
39. Your spouse uses a low voice or whisper or hangs up quickly when on the phone.
40. Your wife has an atypical glow about her.
41. Your spouse starts engaging in atypical or erratic behavior.
42. Your spouse starts leaving the house unexpectedly.
43. Your wife sleeps with her purse by the bed.
44. Your partner goes to the store for groceries and comes home 5 hours later.
45. Your spouse tells you that you can reach him or her at a different telephone number.
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Dr Shery is in Cary, IL, near Algonquin, Crystal Lake, Marengo, Woodstock and Lake-in-the-Hills. He provides day and evening appts and accepts all insurance. Call 1 847 516 0899 or learn more at: http://www.carypsychology.com
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